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It's All About Love!

2/14/2022

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There is something about Valentine’s Day that I can connect to how it works with the social media presence, and basically any action I can call in that bases on relating to others... Would you guess it’s all about love?

Our need to be loved, seen, appreciated, valued.
When we get it, we fly. The world is great.

When we don’t get it, well, there are different ways to go about it… here are some.

Not giving up and trying to get it. Get the love, the like, from someone. And for something. Good girl! Good boy! Keep fighting for it. Oh yes I deserve this, I’ll work harder, I’ll have to post more, and I will be worth it. I will prove it to the world. And then I can be finally loved.

Going into self-pity. Oh no, I am not good at this. No one likes me. No one is interested in what I have to say. Who would even listen to me? Or, oh, I’m just too much for them. So I give up. I back up. I avoid showing up. I hide. I freeze. I should change… be better.

Going back to trying again! Cos otherwise, I will stay alone. Be left alone. Isolated. Not part of it. Oh, it is tiring though…. All that energy I put in, and nothing. I just work work work and still don’t get what I am longing for… I don’t even know what to work on as I am just overtaken by fears, limitations…

And then, for a moment, the question is asked…

Am I looking in the right place?

Where is the love I’m looking for really coming from?

That little spark shines through…

And then?

Over to you!

Inspiration from the cards for today.
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Happy love day. Whatever love means to you right now.
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